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February 4, 2025

Olive Kitteridge and #WinterofStrout

As I wrote about in my January essay, 2025 is my #WinterofStrout, a project that was born by a comment a friend made in our group chat when we were once again marvelling about Elizabeth Strout’s Lucy Barton books, a proposal to (re)read them all, which I thought seemed like such a fantastic idea, mostly because there are many books by Strout I still had yet to read AND my initial encounters with her books had been such MISreadings. I first read Olive Kitteridge in 2013, and enjoyed it, but had avoided it for years before that thinking it was hokey and middlebrow, and in some ways I wasn’t even wrong, and I certainly wasn’t moved enough by it to pick up Strout’s 2019 follow-up Olive, Again, although that was probably because I’d read another novel by her, My Name is Lucy Barton, in 2016, and been so extraordinarily unmoved (and even desirous of my money back—the book seemed slight, unfinished, not enough).

I also didn’t properly understand how both books could be by the same author, or just who this Elizabeth Strout person was anyway, who invented characters with definitive names that usurped her own in reader consciousness. Not thinking very much about any of it at all, until I went back to Lucy in 2023 and found myself besotted. In some ways, still, My Name is Lucy Barton was not enough, okay (though I could make a good argument against that now, especially having seen it performed as a one woman show), but in connection with Strout’s other works—both those books with Lucy’s voice at the centre and others—there is so much life going on. “Strout’s books are less an exercise in narrative than one of character, and its variable layers, and the connections between them, and between places, ideas, and things.”

I love a reading project, the way these books give shape, structure, and context to my own ordinary experiences. My #WinterofStrout began with her debut novel, Amy & Isabelle, which I read in December and completely enjoyed, impressed by how Elizabeth Strout was Elizabeth Strout right out of the gate, fully formed, and thinking about that line from Lucy Barton about how everyone has just one story, really, and they keep telling it over and over, and that Strout’s for certain is mothers and daughters, mothers and daughters. Although this was less apparent in her second novel, Abide With Me, which read on Christmas Eve, this one a story about a father, a widower, whose troubled daughter would grow up to be Bob Burgess’s friend, social worker friend Katherine Caskey, who shows up in later Strout novels. Abide With Me is a novel about marriage, faith, despair, about the failures of community, about the unknowability of others’ experiences (which perhaps is Strout’s actual one story). About the spots of goodness that save us, the miracle of that in a world where so much is otherwise.

And then it was time for Olive Kitteridge, which I’d really been looking forward to, supposing that re-encountering that book in the broader context of Strout’s work would be fascinating—it won the Pulitzer Prize after all. I was prepared to be dazzled. And reader, I was not. Which is not to say that I didn’t love the book, that I didn’t see all the richness that was there, that I didn’t find the stories in the collection so extraordinarily moving. I did! I did! Everything I love about Strout’s point of view and her fascinations and preoccupations are perfectly on display here, but, I’d had this idea of Strout as an author who “doesn’t write novels so much as chart constellations, connecting points of light, moments of grace.” And really was quite sure that this skill would be on full display in this “novel in stories,” and I’d be able to understand her method better than when I first read the book so many years ago.

But it would turn out that Olive Kitteridge really is, as opposed to a chart of constellations, a short story collection, and not even “a novel in stories,” which Olive does not actually purport to be on my copy, but a collection of stories almost half of which had been published in various places between 1992 and 2007 (and it’s likely I even read that earliest story in its initial publication because it was published in Seventeen, which I was an avid reader at the time). Likely Olive herself was not even present in many of the stories’ original incarnations, the ones in which Olive exists in the background, but added as Strout put the Olive Kitteridge manuscript together, which is fine, but it’s just that I’d been expecting something more organic, something more like the magic of what happens when I meet Isabelle from Amy and Isabelle in the pages of Strout’s latest novel, Tell Me Everything, but again, that’s an awful lot to ask from a book.

3 thoughts on “Olive Kitteridge and #WinterofStrout”

  1. Ruth Liberman says:

    I came upon this article quite by accident. I do not know you or your age, but I found your comments concerning.
    I am theatre artist and spent my whole life reading plays – more than I care to say -and usually gave any play at least 10 pages before I put it down, sometimes for good.
    When I retired, I finally had a moment to read something else besides plays and my gardening books. I found Oh William! at a library sale and purchased for a $2.00 donation. I did not know Strout so I am not sure what drew me to this book. I was enthralled. Novels usually do not grab me and hold me, but there was something about how Strout portrays her characters and moments in time that captured me. Perhaps her character studies are much like a play, driven not by action or narrative, but by the internal working of the mind and soul within a character. Perhaps it is my age (don’t know yours) that makes one see life through different eyes at different stages.
    I have not read all of her novels, but those I have read, kept me reading and pondering how life takes turns we never expect. Her characters are REAL, genuinely real. I feel for them.
    Perhaps she is not the author for you and your sensibilities. Please do not denigrate her writing unless you preface it with “where you are in your life”.

    1. Kerry says:

      I love her books so much, which is why I’ve read many of them several times, and why I’m (re)reading every single one of them this year. There was nothing denigrating in my comments—if you’d clicked on my link, you’ll see how I’ve written substantially about how I misunderstood the Lucy Barton books when I first read them and how I came back to them with so much appreciation. And my disappointment with OLIVE this time was more about my misplaced expectations of the book than anything wrong with the book itself. I absolutely revere Elizabeth Strout’s books, I promise, but in this post I am documenting my own process as a reader. BTW, as you are a theatre artist, I am curious as to whether you’ve seen the I AM LUCY BARTON play. I saw it in November, and it was wondrous, bringing a whole new dimension to the book for me (which doesn’t ALWAYS happen when a book becomes a play).

  2. Ruth Liberman says:

    Thank you for your response to my comments. I realize that you have evolved from your initial interaction with Strout’s books. Perhaps denigrate was too strong a word, and for that I apologize. Perhaps simply saying that you misunderstood or had unrealized expectations when first encountering her work would have sufficed. I have come to understand that we view life with different lenses as we age. Our backgrounds and places we have lived also filter our views.
    Unfortunately I have not seen the one woman show “I am Lucy Barton”. Sounds intriguing. I am glad that you found new dimension in the live performance. This is what theatre should be. I am sure you know that Strout’s daughter is a playwright. I am researching her plays to find a hard copy.

    Again, Thank you for your response. I look forward to reading your other articles in the future.

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